What To Do When It All Goes Wrong • Discoverology

What To Do When It All Goes Wrong

Life, Psychology

The standard coping strategies, like positive self-talk, reframing, etc., work really well when you are teetering on the edge between striving and giving in, but once you’ve taken the step over the cliff, a new strategy needs to be implemented. You don’t need to cope, you need to be snapped out of it.

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