The Only Metric Of Success That Really Matters Is The One We Ignore • Discoverology

The Only Metric Of Success That Really Matters Is The One We Ignore

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When all is said and done it’s the people around you that make the difference. Warren Buffett, a friend of Bill Gates, says that his measure of success comes down to one question: “Do the people you care about love you back?” Gates wrote: “I think that is about as good a metric as you will find.”

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