Self Control Is Overrated. Willpower Is Too. • Discoverology

Self Control Is Overrated. Willpower Is Too.

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Psychologists are shying away from the concept, as years of work suggesting that willpower is a finite, essential resource has come under intense scrutiny. In a specific situation, sure, you can muster willpower to save yourself from falling back into a bad habit.

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