Parents: Let Your Kids Fail. You’ll Be Doing Them A Favor • Discoverology

Parents: Let Your Kids Fail. You’ll Be Doing Them A Favor

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We seem to be more worried about raising happy children than competent or autonomous ones. Middle-school students wilted in the face of challenge. They didn’t love learning like they used to. Parents took bad grades personally. Everyone was unhappy.

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