I Was a Proud Non-Breeder. Then I Changed My Mind. • Discoverology

I Was a Proud Non-Breeder. Then I Changed My Mind.

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When I hear younger women confidently describe how they’ll feel when they’re older, sometimes I feel a pinch of such condescension myself. Not because I think they’ll all necessarily want kids, or that they should have them, but because one tricky thing about your 20s is the need to make decisions for a future self whose desires are unknowable.

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