I Escaped the Cult. But I Couldn’t Escape the Cult Mentality. • Discoverology

I Escaped the Cult. But I Couldn’t Escape the Cult Mentality.

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After leaving the Children of God, I was so proud to join the Army. But then I had to ask myself: Was I trading one culture of blind obedience for another?

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