How To Persuade People To Change Their Behavior • Discoverology

How To Persuade People To Change Their Behavior

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Our innate anti-persuasion radar raises our defenses, so we avoid or ignore the message or, even worse, counter-argue. Rather than trying to persuade people, getting them to persuade themselves is often more effective. Here are three ways to do that.

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