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How To Control Your Emotions In Tense Moments

Explainers, Life, Psychology

The ability to recognize, own, and shape your own emotions is the master skill for deepening intimacy with loved ones, magnifying influence in the workplace, and amplifying our ability to turn ideas into results.

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