How To Be Alone: An Antidote To One Of The Central Anxieties And Greatest Paradoxes Of Our Time • Discoverology

How To Be Alone: An Antidote To One Of The Central Anxieties And Greatest Paradoxes Of Our Time

Life, Psychology

We live in a society which sees high self-esteem as a proof of well-being, but we do not want to be intimate with this admirable and desirable person. We think we are unique, special and deserving of happiness, but we are terrified of being alone.

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