An Adult’s Guide To Social Skills, For Those Who Were Never Taught • Discoverology

An Adult’s Guide To Social Skills, For Those Who Were Never Taught

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Unlike topics like math or science, social skills are more of a “learn on the job” kind of skill. When you’re a child, you can learn how to manage conflict, make friends and navigate groups by doing it. But not everyone learns the same lessons the same way.

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