A Psychologist Explains How To Beat Social Anxiety • Discoverology

A Psychologist Explains How To Beat Social Anxiety

A nice analogy is that of mood and action. We often think we have to “feel” like doing something before doing it. We think we have to feel like going to the gym before going to work out. But if we lace up our shoes and go to the gym, often our mood catches up, and we’re glad we went. With confidence, it’s the same thing.

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